1. Everyone wants to know why it is that you are participating in the contest, so in a few sentences will you please explain why you believe that you should be crowned King of Xanga?

I'm not going to lie and say that I am the best blogger on the face of the Xanga Planet. (We'll leave that to the pros *cough*TheBigShowAtUD*cough*TheTheologiansCafe*cough*.) I am only 59% TRUE, but I have 15,000 credits on here. Mini, anyone? As for reasons why I should be King of Xanga, I'm single. I consider myself a decent, well-rounded guy. I'm single. I'd love to meet more Xangans through this competition. I'm single. I would love to host an Xanga meet in Florida..... And did I mention I was single?

2. Please list three (3) things that you could improve about yourself giving a short explanation to each of the reasons.

•  I wish I could change my work ethic. I am the type of person who when they start a project they live, breathe, sleep, and eat that until they are finished.

• I wish I could spend more time with my son and do more things with him. I would love to take him to Disney and go out on the boat more than twice a month, but ultimately I don't think I will ever feel as though I have spent enough time with Ben.

• This is something pretty ridiculous I would change about myself but it is something after all. If I could change anything appearance related about myself, it would be to remove my stretch marks. I have them on my arm pits and inner thighs from body building and working out. They are not highly noticeable, but I still see them when I look in the mirror if you know what I mean.

3. If you could change one thing about today's society what would you change, and why?

There are a lot of things I would change, but the number one thing is that I wish there was more music. I have worked in two different night clubs. I don't like what I see in bars all the time, but occsionally a song will hit the speakers and for a split second, you can feel the crowd change. For a split second, everyone in that room feels that same emotion. We accept each other. We are the same... for just a moment. It is the best part of my job. Hands down.

4. Five years from now where do you see yourself?

Five years from now, I see myself with my son, Ben. Taking him to elementary school in the mornings, teaching him to read, carrying him from in front of the television into his room at night, playing ball with him, packing his snacks every morning.

5. If you could change one thing about Xanga what would you change, and why?

I would really like it if the Friends lists were more accessible. If there was a better feature that allowed you to remove people and that sort of thing. Currently, the system for doing so takes hours if you have a large list of people.

With my recent breakup, I have decided it is probably time to get a new default picture of just myself.

The only recent piece of information that I can provide with my breakup with Candii is that I did not go to church today, because I can't fathom the hurt I would feel when multiple people would approach me and ask where Candii was at. I chose to stay at home this morning with Ben. Tomorrow, I plan on removing her from my cell phone contract. Breakups are a messy business.

Candii seems bothered recently with the fact that a lot of my female friends are attractive.


We have fought at least three times in the past two weeks just about the girls I hang out with. The arguments always seem to come out of nowhere too, and they are always about different girls. I compliment Candii all the time. I pay attention to her. I tell her that she is beautiful. I'm not sure where this is coming from all of a sudden, but it's almost like I should go up to my friends and say," Sorry, we can't hang out anymore. You are too pretty to be my friend. See yuh."